"There's only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self." — Aldous Huxley
Making a Check List?
I'm all for making lists and writing affirmations about the kind of relationship we desire and the kind of person we want to have it with. However, the truth is that the best way to improve our relationships is to start by improving ourselves. It's the good old Law of Attraction at play: That which is like unto itself is drawn; or, simply put, like attracts like. As we get into alignment with our true selves, we attract others who are in a similar process; current relationships improve, or end to create space for more satisfying and fulfilling connections.
So, if you were to ask me to help you understand why you seem to be stuck in negative relationship patterns, and what you can do about it:
I would suggest that we start by identifying limiting core beliefs that might be preventing you from having satisfying relationships (such as the belief that you're not deserving of being loved).
Together we would seek awareness of common fears that might be holding you back (being hurt again, not being good enough, etc), and then work towards overcoming them.
We would also work on resolving, removing, releasing known and unknown blocks and barriers from your path.
As part of the process, we would also work towards empowerment and self-management.
As you reclaim your true self, you'd start having more clarity by reconnecting with your own inner guidance.
This powerful process of reconnecting with your best self can also help improve your relationships with friends, family members, co-workers. Whether you go through it by yourself or with a partner, the benefits are priceless.
© Gisele Marasca-Vargas; 02/15/2016
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